Robert May

Camberg, Germany

1926 - 2025
Robert May outside wearing suspenders
Robert May outside wearing suspenders

Biography

Robert was born in 1926, the youngest of three boys. For several generations, the family owned a dry goods store. A small synagogue served 12-15 Jewish families, and his father served as unofficial cantor.

When Hitler came to power in 1933, antisemitism exploded. Der Stürmer, the antisemitic Nazi tabloid, was prominently displayed about town. The neighborhood grocer would no longer sell to the family. Classmates joined the Hitler Youth, and fear became part of daily life.

By 1936, school had become intolerable, requiring Robert to leave. He moved with his Aunt Emma to Frankfurt and attended a Jewish Day School, the Philanthropin. Robert recalls Kristallnacht in Frankfurt, November 1938. He and his aunt were warned by a neighbor to get out of their apartment. While wandering the streets, the apartment was ransacked, and Robert’s school and synagogue were burned.

A month later, Robert traveled to Brighton, England, to attend a Jewish boarding school, Aryeh House. This was facilitated by the British Kindertransport, which allowed children under seventeen to enter Britain as long as they could obtain private funds to support themselves. Funding for Robert came from his Uncle Siegmund, who had previously escaped Germany to Holland. Robert recalls his relief when the train crossed the German border. In Brighton, Robert learned English and studied for his Bar Mitzvah, a milestone marked with no family.

Two days before the war started, Robert’s parents left Germany with only two suitcases. They traveled to London and made plans to come to the U.S. In August 1940, amidst U-boat attacks, Robert and his parents left England for Havana, Cuba, then New Orleans. Robert remembers standing by the ship’s lifeboats with life jackets and reciting the Sh’ma (Jewish prayer) … everyone believing they would die! Upon landing in Havana, passengers were placed in prison camps in an extortion attempt. Ultimately released, they arrived in New Orleans on September 9, 1940.

In the U.S., Robert continued his schooling, becoming a medical doctor and serving in the U.S. Air Force. He married his wife, Anita, in 1953, moved to Birmingham, and practiced obstetrics and gynecology for close to fifty years. They were blessed with three children and eight grandchildren.

Aunt Emma and Uncle Siegmund perished at Auschwitz.

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Profile

Name in US
Robert (Bob) Marcus May
Name at Birth
Robert Markus May
Date of Birth

02/17/1926

Country of Birth
Germany
City of Birth

Camberg
Alt: Bad Camberg (as of 1981, “bad” meaning “bath, or health resort” has been part of the name)

Parents

Flora Turkheimer
(1885 Münzesheim, Germany – 1986 New Orleans, LA)

Hermann (Herman) May
(1877 Camberg – 1946 New Orleans, LA)

Sibling(s)

Paul David May (Spouse: Lore Marie Baer)
(3/27/1914 Camberg, Germany – 6/23/1980 New Orleans, LA)

Martin Moses May (Spouse: Renate A. Teichmann)
(6/29/1919 Camberg, Germany – 5/24/2008 Portland, OR)

Spouse(s)

Anita Sara Wynne
Born July 17, 1933 in Eufala, AL
Married September 6, 1953 in Bainbridge, GA

Children

Harvey L. May (Spouse: Cindy Cohen)
Born 1954 in Birmingham, AL

Ann D. May (Spouse: Gary Mollengarden )
Born 1957 in Birmingham, AL

Julie A. May
Born 1959 in Birmingham, AL

Religious Identity (Prewar)
Conservative Judaism
Religious Identity (Postwar)
Reform Judaism
Dates Lived in Alabama

1953-2025

Alabama City(s) of Residence
Birmingham
Date and City of Death
01/07/2025 Birmingham, AL
City of Burial / Cemetery
Birmingham / Elmwood Cemetery
Other Experiences

Moved to Frankfurt, Germany in 1936 to attend a Jewish day school, the Philanthropin.

January 1939 moved to Brighton, England to attend a Jewish boarding school, Aryeh House.

Year / Ship to US / Arrival City
September 9, 1940 / SS Santa Marta / New Orleans, LA
US Military Service

Served in the US Air Force and Coast Guard.

Dates Lived in Alabama

1953-2025

Alabama City(s) of Residence
Birmingham
Date and City of Death
01/07/2025 Birmingham, AL
City of Burial / Cemetery
Birmingham / Elmwood Cemetery
Personal Testimonies

USC Shoah Foundation
Interview #61128
March 6, 2023 | Birmingham, AL

Additional Resources

AHEC Darkness into Life Exhibit